Does your child have repeated issues with peers or negative situations that seem to follow them? Getting even or hitting below the belt may squash a single incident, but does not resolve the dynamic, and can make things worse. The antidote that truly cures the cycle is to rise above the frequency.
Picture being beneath or at eye-level with the rain clouds. From this perspective, the storm is all you will see and experience. It is not until you rise above the rain clouds that you will find the sunshine.
So, how can we reach the sunshine in our daily experiences with others? We can rise above the rain clouds through higher action, such as walking away, talking it out, apologizing, helping, or complimenting. Retaliation and other actions of the same frequency only contribute to the dysfunction, and keep us under the rain cloud.
Intu It works with kids on effective ways to break negative cycles and patterns that hold us back, keeping our goals in focus, and proactively problem-solving. :)